Marriage is Beautiful.

 Good day guys. I must say that this write up am about to begin is something that is not new to any of us especially the married ones. I wish to call it 'Ije' thoughts/advice based on experience. I have been married for 10 years and still counting. I have gone through pregnancy and I am blessed with 4 beautiful children.

It's is not easy at all. Anyone who says it is should inbox me and let me know. The spices, ingredients that made his or her own marriage easy.  Marriage is not a bed of roses and I must say it is not for the faint of heart. I mean you must be knowledgeable about what it is before you go into it. You must be ready emotionally, physically, financially( not the Dangote type of financial). You must be ready to let go of some many distractions to be able to focus and succeed.

Marriage is not a child's play. It comes with so many responsibilities, sacrifices, commitments. You must be willing to become one with your partner. You must be willing to share virtually every thing with your partner. In some instances, you must be willing to self sacrifice for the good of your home. You must also be willing to let go of your parents in the sense that your marriage is you and your partner, parents are third party except in very extreme cases which I will talk about in my next blog.

So no matter how it is when it is the right time for a person to get married, marriage is beautiful. Marriage is wonderful. Marriage sweet no be small. It all depends on the parties involved. How understanding they are, how trusting they are of each other, how tolerant they are of each other and how loving they are with each other.

Some people may say '' Abeg which marriage sweet? Talk for yourself. Yes No 2 marriages are the same. The earlier you know the formula for your marriage the better for you. Marriage is the coming together of 2 different personalities, from different background s, different orientation. So every marriage is different based on the personality of the persons involved. 

Let no one ever tell you that marriage can never be enjoyable, that marriage cannot be beautiful. Don't be carried away about what is displayed on social media about the negativity of marriage by some people. 

Marriage is beautiful, marriage is wonderful and marriage is sweet.